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FAMILY LIFE – BUILDING BLOCKS OF LIFE

Recently, I started retracing all the things that happened while growing up. And I somehow figured that our lives are like a brick wall and at any situation a brick disappears, maybe due to bad experiences or words that may have hurt us deeply but we don’t realize it.

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LIFE LATELY AS A BLOGGER

 

Today is just weird for me. I am filled with mixed emotions on what to write about. I usually write posts and save to drafts but recently I have noticed that I let myself get inspired by things happening around me.

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I am just writing this post like 30 minutes before I hit Publish, and I don’t even know what I want to write about. Anyway, let me just keep typing while my son keeps arranging my living room #rollseyes

 

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Okay finally I penned down all the light bulbs in my head and I have decided to talk about what blogging has taught me. Yeah, I have been blogging for quite a while but I have made numerous mistakes and probably still making more mistakes. But on STYLEBEAT BY ZOBAM my first post was published on the 19th of July 2017.

That is like four months of brainstorming and churning out some content. WHOOP! WHOOP! Well, I am proud of me but I still have a long way to grow.

So here are some tips I would say I have learnt so far . . .

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  • RESEARCH

You can never know enough. You have to read and surf at all times to know what is going on especially in the blogosphere because things are always changing. SEO , ALT and a lot of things that I am yet to figure out … Gosh!

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  • DON’T COPY

So, a fellow blogger found out another blogger copied and posted her blog without changing a thing. The copier posted everything down to her pictures and intro. What a shameful thing to do. Stay original, if you cannot come up with a post just let it be till inspiration strikes. This does not mean you cannot be inspired by another blogger’s blog post.

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  • BE TRUE TO YOURSELF

Decide on what you want your blog to be about. Why did you start your blog? Who are you? What are you passionate about? These are questions I constantly ask myself to keep myself in check especially when I feel i am getting lost or I am swaying to trends especially on social media.

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  • ASK QUESTIONS

Don’t be ashamed, always ask questions when you don’t know. Learn from others, you might just avoid the mistakes they made as well. Be eager to learn and unlearn as well.

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  • JOIN A BLOGGER COMMUNITY

Join the right gang and I bet you you will see your craft improve as time goes on. This helped my confidence level. I started taking myself much more serious and who gives the best feedback if not same people in the same world as you . Having a blogger squad might also help you with taking pictures or editing tips and the list goes on and on…

These are the things I can recall now. I may have to do and update as time goes on 🙂

So until next time keep showing me love, keep sharing and commenting too

Much Love from me to you ♥

xoxo

BODY SHAMING – THE WORLD OF SOCIAL MEDIA

Everyone is made in a unique way and you should learn to respect that…

BODY SHAMING

Everyone is made in a unique way and you should learn to respect that…

I was home alone and then my phone beeped with a notification from Instagram, saying that Laura Ikeji just posted a picture. Yep! I am a fan; I love her drive and passion for her business. So, back to the gist. Continue reading “BODY SHAMING – THE WORLD OF SOCIAL MEDIA”

EASIEST WAY TO DECLUTTER YOU HOME – KEY TO A PEACEFUL MIND

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ORGANIZATION AND SERENITY

Cleanliness is next to Orderliness

We all have that couch in our bedroom where we keep our so called “half-worn cloths”. “Oh I didn’t sweat today , this shirt is still clean or Lemme just wear it once more” and the pile keeps growing and growing and before we know it, it is a huge mess.

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NATURAL SKIN CARE ROUTINE FOR COMBINATION/SENSITIVE AND HYPER-PIGMENTED SKIN (POSTPARTUM CARE)

NATURAL SKIN CARE ROUTINE – ( REVIEW) FIG BRIGHTENING BLACK SOAP WITH TURMERIC (EGG AND COCONUT OIL FREE)

I am in a review mood! Whoop! Whoop! and it is Monday 🙂

You can already tell I am excited

How have you been? Hope you have planned your week already ?

I have been looking for the right natural products to use on my super dry and sensitive skin, and trust me it has been a hustle. First, I blew up my money on a brand on Instagram , this brand that I am not going to mention its name is owned by one celebrity somebody …hehehe .

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HOW TO SHOP GROCERIES – THIS SAVED MY LIFE

SPEND YOUR TIME WITH PEOPLE THAT DON’T LET YOU GO GROCERY SHOPPING … THEY DO IT FOR YOU INSTEAD

I used to be that child that would love to accompany her mum to the market. I loved it not because of the treats that would come along the way but because I wanted to help my mum. If you live in Nigeria you already know how stressful it could be to go grocery shopping especially when you would be going with Mum.  Continue reading “HOW TO SHOP GROCERIES – THIS SAVED MY LIFE”

KITCHEN HACKS WITH ZOBAM #2

Happiness is having enough leftovers in the fridge that you don’t have to cook again.

I don’t like leftovers but some days are just meant for leftovers. And trust me sometimes am not even inspired to cook anything.

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